01-20-2025, 11:49 PM
a number of stripper threads have come and gone over time and some people have felt passionately that it is nothing less than adultery while others tend to brush it off as a boys or girls night out of fun but no real harm. Some may think it's juvenile and distasteful but doesn't really rise to the level of cheating.
While we can debate whether it is harmless adult fun vs marital infidelity until cows come home, I think there can be some bigger questions raised here.
The main question is why is it even a question and why is there a big spread in opinions in the first place? Case in point, if a gal at work climbs onto a guys lab as he's sitting at his work station and rubs her bare boobies all over his face, I assume most would consider that highly inappropriate behavior for a married person.
Likewise if some guy were to strip down to a g-string going up his but crack and barely containing his junk were to come up to a group of women shaking his little tush infront of them and they were to feel up his body all over and run their tongues up and down his butt cheeks and even pull down the front of his g-string and gulp a mouthful of his junk for a few moments to the cheers and attagirls! of the other women in the city park, there would likely be some issues.
So why are strip joints safehavens for behaviors that would otherwise get people fired, divorced and possibly even sent to jail?
Why do we debate whether it is adultery vs harmless adult fun?
And is the reality of the strip club even what we think it is? Is there a darker side than we even appreciate on the surface?
(If you've seen any of my posts on the current Lap Dance thread, you've probably guessed I have my own biases and perspectives which I will share below so as not to threadjack the other any more than I already have)
But what are your thoughts, questions, perspectives and experiences with male or female strippers? Are they harmless adult fun? Are they marital infidelity? Are they a scourge of society or a socially sanctioned outlet for raucous behavior?
While we can debate whether it is harmless adult fun vs marital infidelity until cows come home, I think there can be some bigger questions raised here.
The main question is why is it even a question and why is there a big spread in opinions in the first place? Case in point, if a gal at work climbs onto a guys lab as he's sitting at his work station and rubs her bare boobies all over his face, I assume most would consider that highly inappropriate behavior for a married person.
Likewise if some guy were to strip down to a g-string going up his but crack and barely containing his junk were to come up to a group of women shaking his little tush infront of them and they were to feel up his body all over and run their tongues up and down his butt cheeks and even pull down the front of his g-string and gulp a mouthful of his junk for a few moments to the cheers and attagirls! of the other women in the city park, there would likely be some issues.
So why are strip joints safehavens for behaviors that would otherwise get people fired, divorced and possibly even sent to jail?
Why do we debate whether it is adultery vs harmless adult fun?
And is the reality of the strip club even what we think it is? Is there a darker side than we even appreciate on the surface?
(If you've seen any of my posts on the current Lap Dance thread, you've probably guessed I have my own biases and perspectives which I will share below so as not to threadjack the other any more than I already have)
But what are your thoughts, questions, perspectives and experiences with male or female strippers? Are they harmless adult fun? Are they marital infidelity? Are they a scourge of society or a socially sanctioned outlet for raucous behavior?
