error message when launching and still no connect

[frostbyte]

I have followed the install direction to the T and searched for answers around the net but im left puzzled with this one. First off im installing on a windows 2000 dedicated server that hosted. the whole install process goes fine but when i make the shortcut and launch the game i get this error message and im unable to connect to the server even with trying ports that i know are not blocked by my host.

99.9 fps 0/ 8 on map
Console initialized.
Attempted to create unknown entity type event_queue_saveload_proxy!
Game .dll loaded for "Half-Life 2 Deathmatch"
CSoundEmitterSystem::AddSoundsFromFile: No such file scripts/level_sounds_e3_c1
7.txt
CSoundEmitterSystem::AddSoundsFromFile: No such file scripts/level_sounds_e3_to
wn.txt
CSoundEmitterSystem::AddSoundsFromFile: No such file scripts/level_sounds_e3_bu
gbait.txt
CSoundEmitterSystem::AddSoundsFromFile: No such file scripts/level_sounds_eli_l
ab.txt
CSoundEmitterSystem::AddSoundsFromFile: No such file scripts/level_sounds_train
yard.txt
CSoundEmitterSystem::AddSoundsFromFile: No such file scripts/level_sounds_k_lab
.txt

....... list continues for a bit then......

CSoundEmitterSystem::AddSoundsFromFile: No such file scripts/npc_sounds_gman.tx
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CModelLoader::Map_IsValid: No such map 'dm_stalkyard'
map load failed: dm_stalkyard not found or invalid

dm_stalkyard is one of the maps i put in the autoexe.cfg file to exclude....

this is the second install attempt, what am i doing wrong? do you need more info PLEASE HELP!!!!!